Tips on dating a married man
All Africa publishes around 900 reports a day from more than 150 news organizations and over 500 other institutions and individuals, representing a diversity of positions on every topic.
We publish news and views ranging from vigorous opponents of governments to government publications and spokespersons.
If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap: 1. A man who is in a very unhappy or unsatisfying marriage can feel swept away by how wonderful you make him feel.
He may even blurt out, "I've never felt this way before and I can see spending the rest of my life with you." This may sound like a commitment to a future with you. Don't confuse his loving the way you make him feel with his loving you and making a commitment to you. Cheating on his wife tells you how he deals with any situation he doesn't like.
In fact, it often brings on nothing but pain and heartache.
Knowing that, and doing something to change it, are often two different things.
So does a line from one of my mentors from grad school: "The people who don't like you now, darling, will simply like you less as time passes.
Stop trying to please them."I listened to grandmothers: Feed a cold, starve a fever, finish what's on your plate and don't go near the water until an hour after lunch.
Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing.Publishers named above each report are responsible for their own content, which All Africa does not have the legal right to edit or correct.Articles and commentaries that identify all as the publisher are produced or commissioned by All Africa.Being a mistress isn't all it's cracked up to be.It's time to move on and find a real relationship. True, some women may set out to have an affair, or a fling, with a married man; however, no one intentionally falls in love with a married man.
You are evidence of his avoiding dealing with unpleasant situations head on. Having to keep your relationship a secret can attack your self-esteem and cause you to miss out on one of the wonderful aspects of a relationship. He has a legitimate married relationship that helps his public persona and he has an illegitimate one with you to make up for what heâs missing in his marriage. Even though he's the one that made it difficult to say "No." And even though he tells you how wonderful you are. Many men (and women) have difficulty accepting full responsibility for their deceitful actions.